When it comes to proposals, everyone wants something unforgettable. Something that makes your partner’s heart skip a beat every time they remember it.
And while there are countless ways to pop the big question, a beach proposal remains one of the most romantic choices.
Imagine the two of you walking hand in hand, waves crashing gently, the breeze brushing against your skin… and then, you kneel, ring in hand, asking the question of a lifetime.
But what if you could make it even more enchanting; an experience impossible to forget?
If your answer is yes, then this guide is for you.
Why Choose a Beach Proposal?
Fair question. Beaches aren’t for everyone.
But if your girlfriend has ever posted a beach sunset, or mentioned wanting “something romantic by the water,” then yeah, the beach makes sense.
The setup is already there and the ocean does half the work plus you get good natural light for photos.
And if you pick the right spot, you’re not fighting for space with other people’s birthday parties and loud music.
That said, if she’s the type who hates sand in her shoes or gets hot easily, maybe reconsider. A beach proposal only works if she’d actually enjoy being at the beach.
First thing to do
This is where most guys mess up.
They plan the proposal they think looks good, not the one she’d want. Then they’re confused when she says yes but doesn’t seem as excited as they expected.
So before you book anything, pay attention. Not just to the big obvious hints, but to the small stuff:
- Does she save proposal videos on Instagram? What kind?
- When friends get engaged, what does she comment on? The ring? The location? How private it was?
- Has she ever said “I would hate if…” about someone else’s proposal?
- Does she care more about the moment itself or the photos after?
If you’re not sure, ask indirect questions. “Where do you think would be a cool place for a proposal?” or “Would you want people around or just us?”
Her answers tell you everything.
Planning Your Beach Proposal
Alright, so you’ve decided on the beach. Now what?
1. Pick the Right Time
Sunset is obvious for a reason. The light is good, it’s cooler, and the whole vibe just works for proposals.
In Lagos, that’s usually between 5:30 and 6:30 PM depending on the time of year.
Sunrise works too if she’s a morning person and you want something quieter.
2. Choose Your Beach Carefully
Not all Lagos beaches are proposal material.
Public beaches on weekends? Crowded. Noisy. Someone’s cousin will photobomb your pictures.
You want somewhere that gives you space and doesn’t look like a regular hangout spot. That usually means going through a resort or private beach club that can give you access to a section of the beach.
If you don’t want the stress of logistics, hire a planner or work with the resort’s in-house team. Many resorts, like Ziba Beach Resort, offer proposal packages where we handle the setup, so you just show up and enjoy your moment.
3. Keep the Setup Simple (But Intentional)
You don’t need to recreate a Nollywood movie scene.
Candles in glass holders (so they don’t blow out), some flowers, maybe fairy lights if it’s getting dark. That’s enough.
The mistake people make is overdoing it. Twenty different types of decorations, balloons, signs, props, etc.
Pick the elements you want and make them count. E.g. Candles or lanterns for ambiance, flowers (her favorites, not just roses because that’s what everyone does), something personal (a photo of you two, a meaningful object), etc
If you’re not good at this stuff, hire someone or work with the resort’s event team. Don’t try to DIY it the morning of and hope for the best.
4. Sort Out Food and Drinks
Champagne is standard. But if she doesn’t drink or prefers something else, get that instead.
You should also keep food light. You can save the proper meal for after. And bring water. Sounds basic, but you’ll both want it.
5. Dress for the Beach, Not a Wedding
There’s an outfit for every location. Except you’ll hold your proposal in a beautiful restaurant inside the beach, there is no need for a suit and neck tie. Subtly- flowy dresses and linen/vintage shirts make the best photos.
For her, if you’re planning a beach walk, make sure she’s wearing something she can actually walk in. Heels in sand don’t work. If the “surprise” involves a trek from the car, think that through.
6. Get a Photographer
Hire someone who knows what they’re doing. Tell them the plan, show them the spot, and let them position themselves before you arrive.
You want candid shots of her reaction, the ring going on, the two of you right after. Also get wide shots showing the full setup and the beach behind you.
If budget allows, add a videographer. A 1-2 minute proposal video is worth it. Drone shots are also cool but not necessary.
7. Add Personal Details (This Is What She’ll Remember)
The proposal setup gets you Instagram likes. The personal details are what make her cry.
- Play the song from your first date
- Write her a short letter and read it before you kneel
- Recreate something from early in your relationship (a dish you ate, a place you went)
- Include a family heirloom or meaningful piece of jewelry alongside the ring
These details show you put thought into it beyond just “beach + ring.”
Creative Proposal Ideas at the Beach
1. The Classic Setup
Decorated spot by the water, rose petals, candles. Yes, everyone’s seen it, but if you add something personal, like photos from your relationship, her favorite flowers, a specific song playing, it becomes your version instead of a template.
2. Private Dinner Table
Small table, two chairs, candles, the waves in the background.
This works if she values one-on-one time and good food. Propose during dessert or right after. Best part with this option is that the setting does the romantic lifting for you.
3. Message in the Sand
“Will you marry me?” written in the sand (or shell letters if you’re fancy).
Walk her over “to see something,” then get down on one knee. It’s simple, it photographs well, and it doesn’t require a huge setup.
4. Casual Beach Picnic
Blanket, pillows, picnic basket, sunset.
This is for couples who prefer low-key moments over production. You can still have candles and flowers around, but it feels more intimate and less staged.
5. Sparklers or Small Fireworks After
Propose first. Then, after she says yes, light sparklers or small fireworks to mark the moment.
It gives you a second photo opportunity and makes the “yes” feel even bigger.
6. Surprise Celebration After
This only works if she’s the type who’d want it.
After she says yes, have close friends or family appear from a nearby spot to celebrate with you. If she’s private and would hate that, skip it.
Where to Actually Do This: Ziba Beach Resort
If you’re in Lagos and want to avoid the logistical headache, Ziba Beach Resort handles most of this for you.
Private beach access means no strangers in your photos and we have event coordinators who can set up décor, arrange food, and coordinate timing so you just show up.
We’ve also got overwater spots, beachfront areas, and backup indoor options if weather becomes an issue (because Lagos weather is unpredictable).
You can also book a room and stay the night after. Beats driving back through Lekki traffic right after getting engaged.
If you want to sort the proposal setup with us, email marketing@zibabeachresort.com or call +234 704 730 0013.
FAQ: Beach Proposal Planning
Q: What’s the best time of year for a beach proposal in Lagos?
A: Dry season (November-March) offers the most predictable weather. Avoid rainy season (April-October) unless you have solid indoor backup.
Q: How far in advance should I book a beach resort for a proposal?
A: Book 4-6 weeks ahead for weekends, 2-3 weeks for weekdays. Popular dates (Valentine’s, Christmas, New Year) need 2-3 months notice.
Q: Should I tell the photographer in advance or surprise them too?
A: Always hire and brief the photographer in advance. They need time to scout positions and lighting.
Q: What if it rains on proposal day?
A: Choose a venue with covered options (gazebos, terraces, indoor spaces with beach views). Ziba Beach Resort offers multiple backup locations.
Q: Do I need permission to propose on a public beach?
A: Public beaches don’t require permission, but private resort beaches offer better control, privacy, and support.
